Writing and giving a wedding
speech is a praiseworthy action and a very important contribution to a wedding
service. This contribution will be remembered by friends and family for a very
long time, so feel honored about your participation in this special event.
Writing the wedding speech
feels like an overwhelming task, especially in your
current emotional state because you may feel excited, scared, nervous, happy,
grateful, or all of the above. You may have difficulty concentrating or
maintaining your composure during this process. THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL.
Stop and take a few moments for yourself, and remember that you can write and
deliver a great wedding speech. All you have to do is follow the instructions
in the remainder of this guideline, and you will give a touching speech and
Right now, try and keep a positive attitude. Remember that
everybody at the wedding reception will be behind you completely. Do not be
concerned about giving the perfect delivery of your wedding speech. Do what you can given the short
time frame. Again, this is can be an emotionally challenging time for you.
Nobody expects you to have great stage presence, or be an amazing orator. JUST
BE YOURSELF, TAKE YOUR TIME, AND CONVEY YOUR FEELINGS FOR YOUR LOVED ONE. The
most touching wedding speeches and wedding toasts convey your emotions and your feelings. They are not a
summary of the person’s life story.FIRST
Before writing the wedding speech, it is important to
overcome your feelings of fear. You have many confusing questions running
through your mind: “What do I say?” “Will people like it?” “How long will it
be?” “Where do I even begin?” These questions will be answered for you in this
guide. The important thing for you to do is put your fears aside and break
everything down into small pieces. Remember that you eat the elephant in many
small portions, not just one bite. Nothing great is done in one sitting.